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Illicit, the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity, studied over 400,000 profiles on their site to find what men and women were both looking for from their ideal partner, as well as how they described themselves.If you’re a woman, then the key words to include on your profile are “sexy”, “honest” and “confident” as 15%, 10% and 7% of men respectively are after these traits more so than anything else.

And they don’t mind sacrificing what many people would say materially characterizes men, like strong bodies.

In fact, some herbivorous boys do not even want to eat much, because it saves them money.

In terms of what to avoid, there’s nothing that screams “undateable” quite like referring to yourself as shy, curvy or, again, happy; just 1%, 0.09% and 0.4% of women respectively are looking for these traits.

In terms of how people described themselves, you’re most likely to stumble across a man who’s honest (10%), intelligent (9%) and confident (8%), while women are honest (9%), sexy (8%) and intelligent (7%).

In the meantime, stay well clear of describing yourself as shy (2%), trustworthy (1%) and, oddly enough, happy (0.3%).

If you’re a man whose profile is filled with references to how handsome everyone tells you you are, remove all of that and instead refer to yourself as honest (13%), intelligent (10%) and confident (9%); women value your character over your vanity.

The site’s spokesperson, Christian Grant, explained the importance of creating a good first impression: “With so much competition, the world of online dating is all about fine margins; anything that’s even slightly off-putting marks you as a liability.

“Many people struggle to strike the balance between confidence and arrogance, instead adopting an overly modest approach, but that rarely works.

In broken English she said, “Please, give me your phone number.” I wasn’t into the idea of giving my number to a random older lady, so with no other excuses coming to my head, I just said, “Sorry, I don’t have a phone.” Then I walked away.

And that was my first encounter with a carnivorous woman.

Whereas with previous generations, it was nearly impossible to have a close friend of the opposite sex, and not have that person be your girl/boy friend.

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