Dating a divorced man with young kids
The Narc’s children are the ultimate supply…they’re always there, they carry his genes and they look up to him without question, heck, they even look a bit like him…
Narcissistic fathers see their children simply as an extension of themselves.
They do not see the children as individuals with their own ideas.
If the son of a narcissist chooses a certain academic program in college and the Narc views their choice as substandard i.e.
medicine, pre-law, science or architecture, they will make their disapproval known to all.
Surely, if the son had chosen pre-law for his studies, the Narc would be bragging about it. “My friend’s daughter had the ‘pleasure’ of running into one of her father’s long-time friends. When she explained that she hadn’t dropped out and was attending night classes, he responded that the classes weren’t ‘real’.
Interestingly, her father had said the same to her not more than a week prior.
They may even go so far as to pretend the son isn’t attending college.
His classes aren’t real because they are not what he told him to study. The son is hard pressed to find any moral support or love from his father. They are only capable of recognizing what makes them look good or places them in the spotlight. He asked her why she dropped out of university and why she had so many tattoos.Their children’s appearance, behavior, choices, friends, and activities are all a reflection of themselves.This condition often includes the parent expecting their children to be ‘perfect’ just as they view themselves.He requires his children to worship him.” During a divorce, co-parenting with a narcissist can be dangerous.They will go to great lengths to possess the children.If you have asked for the divorce you can bet their wrath will be focused on you.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating